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Bennett’s Monthly Growth Series // 2

April 28, 2015 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

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11 pounds 9.5 ounces (60th percentile), 22 3/4 inches long (65th percentile), 15.5 inches head circumference (83rd percentile), got thrush again, smiles readily, on the verge of laughing, discovered her fists and loves to gum them, tolerates bath time, sleeps for a 6-8 hour stretch at night, usually wakes up once or twice at night, has a bedtime schedule, still very cuddly, extremely impatient – now means NOW, looks like a clone of mommy

My little Rosebud is two months old! I can’t believe how fast the time is flying. I remember things moving much slower when Asher was her age. Bennett is an absolute delight. We are all entranced by her. She is quick to smile and very well natured. She has periods of fussiness in the evenings, but I’ve found that as long as I hold her OR leave her alone (one of those two) she’ll settle quickly. I normally put her down to bed awake and she falls asleep on her own with no fuss, I just make sure to replace her pacifier a couple times. It’s wonderful, I feel like I’ve reclaimed my evenings! She loves to nurse and when she’s ready she isn’t at all patient about it, the girl knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to make herself heard.

She is basically my clone. The resemblance is absolutely uncanny! I feel like I’m looking at a picture of myself when I was a baby. What is my face doing on this tiny body?! It’s so weird, but after two years of seeing 99% Rafaan in Asher, it’s really fun to see my genes shine through.

Asher is still totally besotted. He handles her so sweetly and demonstrates a tenderness in her presence that is solely reserved for her. It makes my heart swell to bursting to see their interactions.

There is something so special about having a daughter. Neither Raf or I have sisters, so this feels totally novel and exciting, not that she’s really anything other than just a baby right now, but still. After having 3 sons my grandparents were blessed with a daughter and my grandfather always told me, he felt complete as a parent once my aunt came along, and I totally know how he felt now.

Still trying to figure out how to function with two. Parenting is the easy part, making dinner…not so much, but I’ll get there…hopefully. Also whoever said newborns were a ton of work never had a toddler, but more on that later.

Benny Girl is filling out quite nicely, I am LOVING all the rolls she’s getting. Asher at 2 months was 9.5 ounces lighter and half an inch longer, so I’m really enjoying all the chubby baby kisses!

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Filed Under: Bennett's Growth Series Tagged With: 2 months old, baby, baby girl, cloth diapers, growth series, infant, milestones, monthly growth series, photos, pictures

Bennett’s Monthly Growth Series // 1

March 27, 2015 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

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super cuddly – only wants to sleep touching mommy – hates bath time – got thrush – had a tongue tie clipped – went from 25th to 43rd percentile in weight – loves to eat – started to smile – looks most like mommy but has daddy’s feet

I can hardly believe it’s been one month already! Time has flown by! It is truly a delight to be this little girl’s mother, not that she does much more than sleep, eat and poop at the moment, but still. I love this tiny person so much! It’s amazing how your heart and your capacity to love just expand when you have another child.

Asher loves his little sister. His voice takes on a tender, sweet tone whenever he speaks about her and he showers her in hugs and kisses, which considering that everyone and anyone else has to beg for his affection, is pretty amazing. Seeing him interact with her makes my heart want to explode. I’m still not sure how I’m going to navigate being a mother of two once the last of the grandparents leave next week, but I’m sure I’ll figure it out.This past month, we’ve had first my parents and then Raf’s parents here the whole time and I’m so thankful to them for all the help, because it’s allowed me to be on a Babymoon with my daughter. We’ve had the time to snuggle and nurse and sleep and bond uninterrupted and I feel so blessed to have had the opportunity to do so.

This girl is SO cuddly! I hoped I would get a cuddly child and that is exactly what I’ve gotten. It is nearly impossible to get her to sleep anywhere other than on me or right next to me and touching me in some way, which means that we have been bed sharing fairly often. I have been loving all the snuggles that this allows but I’m also terrified that she’ll be smothered or that Asher will come bounding into our bed and crush her. I’ve been working on getting to to sleep in her bassinet, but as often as it works, it also fails and she wakes up shortly after being separated from me. I’ve found that putting a rolled blanket next to her, swaddling, and having a space heater near by helps trick her into thinking she’s still next to me. Baby wearing works for when I need to get stuff done, but after nearly 10 months of being practically sedentary (I know, I know) I’m so weak that I find it kills my back after a while, but then again, even just standing up feels like a chore…I really need to get back to being active again. I’m hoping that she gets a bit better at sleeping apart from me before Raf’s mom leaves next week, because I certainly won’t be able to sit on the couch all day and hold her while she sleeps once I’m Asher’s sole source of entertainment again.

I’m just so excited to get to know her and to watch her personality unfold, but I’m also acutely aware that these sweet moments are fleeting so I’m cherishing and reviling in every second of it. With Asher I kept looking forward to when he’d do the next thing or reach the next milestone, but this time I know how quickly each stage passes and that some things may not last. I’m relishing every cuddle and snuggle.

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Filed Under: Bennett's Growth Series Tagged With: 1 month old, baby, baby girl, cloth diapers, girl, milestones, monthly growth series, monthly picture, photo

I’m Going Cloth

December 4, 2012 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

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Cloth diapers that is.  I don’t exactly remember when I first started thinking about using cloth diapers, but I think it was while I was living and working in Israel.  A good friend of mine was expecting her first child and I did a lot of research to help her navigate all the information out there.  While doing all that researching I came across cloth diapers and how they were better for your baby, the environment and your wallet.  I was sold.  Even though it would be close to 4 years later that I would be expecting my first child, I knew I wanted to use cloth diapers.

So why cloth?  Here are my reasons:

1.  They are better for your baby.  Babies who are kept in cloth diapers generally get changed more often because they can feel when they are wet sooner, which results in fewer diaper rashes.  *However it should be noted that if you don’t change your child’s diaper soon after they have wet or soiled it, the “ increased skin wetness, may lead to increased friction and increased abrasion damage, skin permeability, and microbial growth.”  This is a fairly old study, and there have been many advances in cloth diapers since then, such as the use of fabrics like micro-fleece that wick the moisture away from the skin, leaving your baby feeling dry. Personally, I would prefer to change my baby’s diaper promptly anyway, because who wants to hang out in their own waste? *

2.  Children who are cloth diapered generally potty train at a younger age because they learn what it feels like to be wet.

3.  It is better for the environment, although only slightly.  Disposable diapers are estimated to take 250-500 years to decompose and represent 4% of all solid waste.  In fact disposables are the third largest single consumer item in landfills.  Even though this is really gross, when you look at the issue from a Life Course Perspective, the cumulative water requirements, waste water particulates and environmental emissions associated with laundering cloth diapers at home outweighs those associated with using disposable diapers. While, the cumulative solid waste volume of disposables is far greater than that of cloth.  However when you factor in the energy value of converting raw cotton and trees into these products, disposables and cloth diapers (that are laundered at home) have about the same impact, while cloth diapers that are laundered using a diaper service come out a little bit ahead.   Check out THIS article for all the specifics, the cloth vs. disposables portion begins on page 11.  Now, many people argue that there are many ways to wash cloth diapers that don’t have such a negative environmental impact, this includes using energy-efficient machines, line drying and using the correct water temperature as opposed to very hot water.  So this point could be up for debate.  *I will say however, that whether you choose to use cloth or disposable diapers the only proper disposal of poop is in the toilet.  Most people who use disposable diapers don’t take the time to dump the poop in the toilet before throwing the diaper out and this has HUGELY negative public health consequences.  Human feces are about as foul and bacteria riddled as anything comes and when you throw it in the trash it can get into the soil and water and then you have e. coli contamination or cholera outbreaks.  Something to think about.  HERE’S a statement by the APHA on the topic.*

4.  It is easier on your wallet.  When using disposable diapers you will spend roughly $1500-$2500 from birth to potty training PER child.  With cloth there are so many options that you could spend anywhere from $200 for a basic stash to around $800 on a large and fancy stash and that stash will generally last you through multiple children AND you can even sell them and recoup some of the cost once you’re done using them.  That’s a HUGE savings for something that your child is just pooping and peeing in anyway.

So there you have my reasons for going cloth.  I know a lot of parents out there also site the cuteness factor as a reason that they love using cloth diapers, but I can’t really speak to that yet.  I’ll definitely let you know more once my child is actually born.

Stay tuned to learn all about my cloth diaper stash!

Filed Under: Cloth Diaper Madness, Health, My life Tagged With: cloth diapers, cost, diapers, enviroment, environmental impact, parenting, potty training

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