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Breastfeeding // State Laws on Public Nursing

August 6, 2013 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

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I recently read this article, which subsequently inspired me to put together this map.  Some people feel that there are right ways and wrong ways to breastfeed in public and that some of those ways are immodest.  I don’t agree.  Nothing about breastfeeding is immodest.  Luckily, I have never been asked to cover up, move or discontinue while breastfeeding in public, but if it does ever happen I will stand up for my right to feed my child.  It is important to know the laws regarding breastfeeding, because when we are armed with knowledge it makes it easier to bring about change.  So in honor of National Breastfeeding Month I made this map, which gives you the state laws on public breastfeeding at a glance.  For the full laws in each state see below.  I recommend reading the laws of your state carefully because there are some subtle differences in terminology that can make a big difference.  For example Virginia’s law states that a woman may breastfeed in any public place owned by the state, while Florida’s states that you can breastfeed in any public or private place.

Federal law:

Pub. L. No. 106-058, § 647: Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a woman may breastfeed her child at any location in a Federal building or on Federal property, if the woman and her child are otherwise authorized to be present at the location.

State Laws:

Alabama

Ala. Code § 22-1-13 (2006): A mother may breastfeed her child in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be present.

Alaska

Alaska Stat. § 29.25.080: A municipality may not enact an ordinance that prohibits or restricts a woman breast-feeding a child in a public or private location where the woman and child are otherwise authorized to be.

Arizona

Ariz. Rev. Stat. Ann § 41-1443 (2006): A mother is entitled to breast-feed in any area of a public place or a place of public accommodation where the mother is otherwise lawfully present.

Arkansas

Ark. Stat. Ann. § 20-27-2001 (2007): A woman may breastfeed a child in a public place or any place where other individuals are present.

California

Cal. Civil Code § 43.3 (1997): Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a mother may breastfeed her child in any location, public or private, except the private home or residence of another, where the mother and the child are otherwise authorized to be present.

Colorado

Colo. Rev. Stat. § 25-6-302 (2004): A mother may breastfeed in any place she has a right to be.

Connecticut

Conn. Gen. Stat. § 46a-64: It shall be a discriminatory practice in violation of this section . . . for a place of public accommodation, resort or amusement to restrict or limit the right of a mother to breast-feed her child; and § 53-34b: No person may restrict or limit the right of a mother to breast-feed her child.

Delaware

Del. Code Ann. tit. 31 § 310 (1997): Notwithstanding any provisions of law to the contrary, a mother shall be entitled to breast-feed her child in any location of a place of public accommodation wherein the mother is otherwise permitted.

District of Columbia

D.C. Code Ann. § 2-1402.82(c)(1): A woman shall have the right to breastfeed her child in any location, public or private, where she has the right to be with her child, without respect to whether the mother’s breast or any part of it is uncovered during or incidental to the breastfeeding of her child.

Florida

Fla. Stat. § 383.015(1) (1993):  A mother may breastfeed her baby in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be, irrespective of whether the nipple of the mother’s breast is uncovered during or incidental to the breastfeeding.

Georgia

Ga. Code § 31-1-9 (1999): [A] mother may breast-feed her baby in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be irrespective of whether the nipple of the mother’s breast is uncovered during or incidental to the breast-feeding.

Hawaii

Hawaii Rev. Stat. § 489.21: It is a discriminatory practice to deny, or attempt to deny, the full and equal enjoyment of the goods, services, facilities, privileges, advantages, and accommodations of a place of public accommodations to a woman because she is breastfeeding a child.

Idaho

No state law protecting the right to breastfeed in public. The only law with regards to breastfeeding has to do with jury exemption.  

Illinois

Ill. Rev. Stat. ch. 740 § 137 (2004): A mother may breastfeed her baby in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be, irrespective of whether the nipple of the mother’s breast is uncovered during or incidental to the breastfeeding; however a mother considering whether to breastfeed her baby in a place of worship shall comport her behavior with the norms appropriate in that place of worship.

Indiana
Ind. Code § 16-35-6: Notwithstanding any other law, a woman may breastfeed her child anywhere the woman has a right to be.
Iowa

Iowa Code § 135.30A (2002): Notwithstanding any other provision of law to the contrary, a woman may breast-feed the woman’s own child in any public place where the woman’s presence is otherwise authorized.

Kansas

Kan. Stat. Ann.  § 65-1,248(b): A mother may breastfeed in any place she has a right to be.

Kentucky

Ky. Rev. Stat. § 211-755(1) (2006): Notwithstanding any other provision of the law, a mother may breast-feed her baby or express breast milk in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be.

Louisiana

La. Rev. Stat. Ann. § 51. 2247.1(B) (2001): Notwithstanding any other provision of law to the contrary, a mother may breastfeed her baby in any place of public accommodation, resort, or amusement.

Maine

Me. Rev. Stat. Ann. tit. 5, § 4634 (2001): Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a mother may breast-feed her baby in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be.

Maryland

Md. Health-General Code Ann. § 20-801 (2003): (a) A mother may breast-feed her child in any public or private location in which the mother and child are authorized to be. (b) A person may not restrict or limit the right of a mother to breast-feed her child.

Massachusetts

Mass. Gen. Laws Ann. ch. 111 § 221(a) (2008): A mother may breastfeed her child in any public place or establishment or place which is open to and accepts or solicits the patronage of the general public and where the mother and her child may otherwise lawfully be present.

Michigan

Mich. Comp. Laws § 41.181, § 67.1aa & § 117.4i et seq. (1994): Public nudity does not include any of the following:

(a) A woman’s breastfeeding of a baby whether or not the nipple or areola is exposed during or incidental to the feeding.

Minnesota

Minn. Stat. §145.905: A mother may breast-feed in any location, public or private, where the mother and child are otherwise authorized to be, irrespective of whether the nipple of the mother’s breast is uncovered during or incidental to the breast-feeding.

Mississippi

Miss. Code Ann. § 17-25-7 (2006): A mother may breast-feed her child in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be, without respect to whether the mother’s breast or any part of it is covered during or incidental to the breast-feeding.

Missouri

Mo. Rev. Stat. § 191.918 (1999): Notwithstanding any other provision of law to the contrary, a mother may, with as much discretion as possible, breast-feed her child in any public or private location where the mother is otherwise authorized to be.

Montana

Mont. Code Ann. § 50-19-501 (2002): Provides that the breastfeeding of a child in any location, public or private, cannot be considered a nuisance, indecent exposure, sexual conduct, or obscenity.

Nebraska

2011 Neb. Laws, L.B. 197: A mother may breastfeed her child in any public or private location where the mother is otherwise authorized to be.
Nevada
Nev. Rev. Stat. § 201.232(2) (1995): Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a mother may breast feed her child in any public or private location where the mother is otherwise authorized to be, irrespective of whether the nipple of the mother’s breast is uncovered during or incidental to the breast feeding.

New Hampshire

N.H. Rev. Stat. Ann. § 132:10-d (1999): Breast-feeding a child does not constitute an act of indecent exposure and to restrict or limit the right of a mother to breast-feed her child is discriminatory.

New Jersey

N.J. Rev. Stat. § 26:4B-4/5 (1997): Notwithstanding any provision of law to the contrary, a mother shall be entitled to breast feed her baby in any location of a place of public accommodation, resort or amusement wherein the mother is otherwise permitted.

New Mexico

N.M. Stat. Ann. § 28-20-1 (1999): A mother may breastfeed her child in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be present.

New York

N.Y. Civil Rights Law § 79-e (1994): Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a mother may breast feed  her  baby  in  any  location, public or  private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be, irrespective of whether  or  not  the nipple of the mother’s breast is covered during or incidental to the breast feeding.

North Carolina

N.C. Gen. Stat. § 14-190.9 (1993): Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a woman may breast feed in any public or private location where she is otherwise authorized to be, irrespective of whether the nipple of the mother’s breast is uncovered during or incidental to the breast feeding.

North Dakota

N.D. Cent. Code § 23-12-16: If the woman acts in a discreet and modest manner, a woman may breastfeed her child in any location, public or private, where the woman and child are otherwise authorized to be.

Ohio

Ohio Rev. Code Ann. § 3781.55 (2005): A mother is entitled to breast-feed her baby in any location of a place of public accommodation wherein the mother otherwise is permitted.

Oklahoma

Okla. Stat. tit. 63, § 1-234 (2004): The Legislature hereby declares that breast-feeding a baby constitutes a basic act of nurturing to which every baby has a right and which should be encouraged in the interests of maternal and child health. In furtherance of this right, a mother may breast-feed her baby in any location where the mother is otherwise authorized to be

Oregon

Or. Rev. Stat. § 109.001 (1999): A woman may breast-feed her child in a public place.

Pennsylvania

P.L. 90, No. 28, Cl. 35 (enacted July 8, 2007): The Freedom to Breastfeed Act permits a mother to nurse her child in public; and provides that breastfeeding may not be considered a nuisance, indecent exposure, sexual conduct or obscenity.

Rhode Island
R.I. Gen. Laws § 23-13.5-1 (2008): A woman may feed her child by bottle or breast in any place open to the public.

South Carolina

S.C. Code Ann. § 63-5-40(A)(B) (2008): A woman may breastfeed her child in any location where the mother and her child are authorized to be. Breastfeeding a child in a location where the mother is authorized to be is not considered indecent exposure.

South Dakota

S.D. Codified Laws Ann. § 22-22-24.1 and § 22-24A-2 (2002): South Dakota law exempts breastfeeding from public indecency laws. “Nudity”…this term does not include a mother’s breast-feeding of her baby irrespective of whether or not the nipple is covered during or incidental to feeding.

Tennessee

Tenn. Code Ann. § 68-58-101 and 102 (2006):  A mother may breastfeed in any public or private place she is authorized to be. Breastfeeding shall not be considered public indecency or nudity, obscene, or sexual conduct.

Texas

Tex. Health Code Ann. § 165.002 (1995): A mother is entitled to breast-feed her baby in any location in which the mother is authorized to be.

Utah

Utah Code Ann. § 17-15-25 (1995): The county legislative body may not prohibit a woman’s breast feeding in any location where she otherwise may rightfully be, irrespective of whether the breast is uncovered during or incidental to the breast feeding.

Vermont

Vt. Stat. Ann. tit. 9, § 4502 (j) (2002): Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a mother may breastfeed her child in any place of public accommodation in which the mother and child would otherwise have a legal right to be.

Virginia

Va. Code § 2.2-1147.1 (2002): Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a woman may breast-feed her child at any location where that woman would otherwise be allowed on property that is owned, leased or controlled by the Commonwealth as defined in § 2.2-1147.

Washington

Wash. Rev. Code § 49.60.30(g): [It is] the right of a mother to breastfeed her child in any place of public resort, accommodation, assemblage, or amusement.

West Virginia

No state law protecting the right to breastfeed in public but if this bill gets passed that could change. 

Wisconsin

Wis. Stat. § 253.16: A mother may breast−feed her child in any public or private location where the mother and child are otherwise authorized to be. In such a location, no person may prohibit a mother from breast−feeding her child, direct a mother to move to a different location to breast−feed her child, direct a mother to cover her child or breast while breast−feeding, or otherwise restrict a mother from breast−feeding her child as provided in this section.

Wyoming

Wyo. Stat. § 6-4-201 (2007): Wyoming law exempts breastfeeding from public indecency laws. The act of breastfeeding an infant child, including breastfeeding in any place where the woman may legally be, does not constitute public indecency

Resources:

NCSL Breastfeeding Laws

Nursing Freedom Breastfeeding Laws

Breastfeeding Law – know your rights – a great resource for all laws pertaining to breastfeeding, not just the ones to do with public nursing.

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A Love Like No Other

May 15, 2013 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com 11 Comments

Everyone told me that having a baby would truly show me what it meant to love.  That nothing would compare and that the love I would feel for that tiny bundle would be like nothing I had ever felt before.  When I was pregnant with Asher I knew I loved him, I could feel him inside me and as he grew so did my love for the tiny stranger within me.  Once he was born I stared into his eyes and I loved him even more, but I didn’t exactly think that what I was feeling was something new or unfamiliar.  I loved him, but I felt it was the same depth of love that I felt for my husband, parents, family and dearest friends.  I felt I had been deceived in some way, or that the reality of the feelings that I would have for my son was blown out of proportion.  Like it was a story that parents told other parents because it sounded romantic.

Slowly and almost imperceptibly at first that love grew.  The more I got to know my little boy, the more my heart swelled with love for him.  One day as I looked at his tiny face I was suddenly struck by the enormity of the feelings that I felt for him.  I could hardly comprehend the power of my love for this perfect soul.  To love someone so completely is something I have never experienced.  I ache every time I see my nose and his father’s lips together on his face.  Sometimes I literally can not get close enough to him.  I want to inhale him and soak him up.  I want to bottle the way his skin feels under my finger tips and the way he smells in the grey early morning light, so that years from now, when he is grown, I can be brought back and remember them as vividly as I am experiencing them now.

He is growing so fast, I feel like this precious time with him is slipping away.  This time when I am the center of his world.  I have never wanted to be the center of anyone’s world, but now that I am, I savor the weight of it.  In just one month he will start on solid food and I suspect that will be the first step towards him gaining his independence.  I want that for him.  I want him to grow up and to leave the nest and to get married and to have babies of his own, but it still aches.  The thought of him leaving.  He will only be a baby for a year.  One, single short year and then he’ll be a toddler, a little boy, a teenager, a man and I won’t be able to sneak into his room at night just to gaze at him and savor the sweet sounds of his breath.  That year is nearly half gone already and I can’t seem to comprehend how that even happened.  Every day the depth of my feelings for him grows stronger.  I already struggle to understand the vastness of how I feel for him and I know that there is no way to even fathom what my love will be for him in 2 days, 2 weeks, 2 years, 2 decades.  I feel so incredibly humbled that I get to know this bright soul before anyone else does.  I don’t always cherish the moments I have with him.  When I’m up with him at 4 a.m. or when he spits up down my shirt I think about how I can’t wait for him to outgrow this stage, too just be a little bit older. But when he’s nursing and gazing at me with those slate grey eyes, I know that I want to hold on to these fleeting second for eternity.  I can’t though.  I blink and they’re gone, soon to become distant fading memories, clouded by the onslaught of time.  My yucky, sticky, sweet, happy little boy.  

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Filed Under: My life Tagged With: baby, infant, love, mama's boy, mother, motherhood, parenting, precious child, precious soul, reflection, time, treasure

A Picture for Your Sunday // 3

May 12, 2013 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

IMG_5865My first Mother’s Day.

Filed Under: Sunday Pictures Tagged With: baby, mama's boy, mother, mother's day, photography, pictures

The Most Rewarding

April 30, 2013 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com 8 Comments

Almost every time I tell anyone that being a stay at home mom is the hardest thing I have ever done, they immediately reply with “but also the most rewarding, right?”.  To which I generally say “yes, of course!”  However, I am always left feeling guilty because deep down I’m not sure I see it that way.  Maybe I need to redefine my definition of rewarding.

Don’t get me wrong.  I LOVE being a mom.  It is my biggest dream come true, but when I think of something being rewarding, I don’t generally envision changing diapers, being covered in spit-up, sleep deprivation and going days without any meaningful adult interaction, instead I think of having a career I’m passionate about.  Curing cancer would be rewarding.  Establishing public health practices in under served communities would be rewarding.

I love the fact that I get to be present for all of Asher’s firsts.  His first smile, his first laugh, first roll, etc.  Is being a stay at home mom really the ‘most rewarding’ though?  Not really.  At least not yet, not for me.  It is hard work.  It is lonely.  It is testing.  Sure it can be deeply rewarding in the sense that I have brought this amazing soul into this world, but I wouldn’t classify it as the most rewarding.  The most important? Yes.  The most rewarding? Not yet.  Maybe this will change, after all my son is only four months old. I just think it’s important to be honest about these things, because if I’m feeling them, then someone else is too. There is too much of a culture of shame in the parenting community.  It’s almost as though parents aren’t allowed to complain about how hard it can get, without also reaffirming how amazing it is and sometimes all this ‘putting our best feet forward’ is exhausting and leaves everyone feeling like they aren’t doing as good of a job as someone else.

I wish more parents would talk about the challenges they face or the tests they endure rather than always presenting their lives as perfect packages filled with rainbows, ribbons and professional looking photographs of gourmet meals that they post on pinterest.  Let’s have a balanced perspective please.  Yes, being a mom is wonderful and fulfilling in ways I never imagined and I am so thankful every single day for being able to take on this role, but if you drop by unannounced, you will find my house in various stages of disorder and chaos.  The bed won’t be made, there will be a laundry basket of clean clothes that has been sitting in the living room for days waiting to be folded, baby clothes, pacifiers and tissues will be strewn about the house and don’t even ask when the last time the house was vacuumed.  My son will generally be smiling after having just completed his most recent abstract expressionism masterpiece consisting of curdled sour milk spit-up in my hair, seriously, I don’t even bother to change into clean clothes most of the time because there is just no point.  Being a parent is the best thing I have ever done but it has yet to be the most rewarding and that’s okay, it doesn’t make me any less of a great mom.

Filed Under: My life Tagged With: baby, children, culture of shame, mom, mommyhood, mother, motherhood, parenting, pinterest, rewarding, son

A Lesson in Detachment

April 25, 2013 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

Holding Asher skin to skin when he was running a fever after having his 4 month vaccinations

Almost immediately after Asher was born I began to see the world in a very different light.  All of a sudden I saw the danger in everything and I was confronted with just how fragile this physical existence is.

Do any of you ever picture escape scenarios if something were to occur to endanger your life?  Say for example, I’m driving over a bridge, I have always thought about what I would do to escape the car if the bridge were to collapse.  You know, break the glass or roll down the window and swim to safety.  In all these envisioned scenarios I can see myself having a chance of surviving and making it to safety, however now that I have a baby I realize that we probably won’t survive because the darn car seat is like a venus fly trap.

Seriously, being a mom has filled my head with morbid thoughts.  Every time my child is out of my sight, I imagine everything that could go wrong.  I can really understand why some parents become over protective and compulsive about checking on their kids.  The reality is, the world can be a big and dangerous place and for the first time I truly understand what people are talking about when they say that ‘to have a child is to live the rest of your life with your heart outside of your body’.  I try to balance thinking rationally with listening to my gut while having these DANGER signs flashing  before my eyes at every turn.  Let me tell you, it’s not always easy to navigate.

In general I try to be a pretty calm mother.  I don’t want to be smothering.  I want my children to be free to learn about the world they live in, even if that means stumbling and falling sometimes.  I want to guide them to be active participants of their surrounds, rather than just mindlessly absorbing everything around them.  All of this is really easy to say, but it can be incredibly hard to put into practice.  To be a mother means to practice detachment every. single. day.

Filed Under: My life Tagged With: baby, danger, detachment, fragile life, mom, morbid, mother, parenting, sick baby, world

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