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Poems

January 26, 2016 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

Poems

As I lay in bed with a baby nestled against me, cheek pressed to my chest,

I write poems in my head, that will never be read.

While rocking a baby in the quiet dark of night, who refuses to be lulled into slumber,

I write poems in my head, that will never be read.

In the moments I take to savor the sweet ache in my muscles, from holding a baby for hours on end,

I write poems in my head, that will never be read.

Of love and joy and pain and light. The trials and triumphs of motherhood.

I write poems in my head, that will never be read,

that is,

except,

for this one.

Filed Under: My life Tagged With: motherhood, parent, poem, poetry

A Tribute to My Dad on Father’s Day

June 16, 2013 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

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Becoming a mom has made me so deeply thankful for my own parents.  They are rock stars in my book.  I wrote them a letter a few months ago, letting them know how I feel and I share part of it with you all now, to honor the amazing man that is my father and in the hopes of inspiring you to do the same for your own Dads.

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Dear Dad,

While I myself will never be a father, becoming a parent has given me a new found appreciation for you as my dad. You were faced with sacrificing for us in a very different way than mom.  You had to sacrifice time with us in order to provide for us and to support us financially.  I know now what a burden that must have been for you.  I know, I for one never once thanked you for that sacrifice. I know there were times when money must have been tight and you could have easily taken up a job in the private sector or opened up your own practice, but instead you chose to instill in us the value of service.  This is something that I am deeply grateful for. Not only were you being of service and doing something you enjoyed but you also came home on your lunch breaks just to be with us. I know a lot of people who can say they never really saw their fathers growing up because of how busy they were and I am so thankful that I am not one of those people.  You played an active role in our childhoods.  It also fell to you to be the main disciplinarian in the family, which I’m sure is something you must have hated. Thank you for raising us to be responsible and accountable for our actions.  You may have had to be the enforcer but you were also able to make us laugh in a way no one else could.  I’m the first to admit that I’m a daddy’s girl. I love that I share many of your traits and it made me so happy when grandpa used to tell me that I was the most like you.  Our similarities also meant that I wasn’t always the easiest person for you to deal with and I want to tell you how thankful I am to you for walking the line between allowing me to be me while also giving me boundaries and for raising me to the best version of myself.  You are the best Dad I could ever ask for.  I feel so blessed to be your daughter.  I can’t thank you enough for all the life lessons you have taught me and for all the sacrifices you made and still make for us.  I will always need you.  You are my rock.

I am now and always will be, a Daddy’s girl.  I love you.

Happy Father’s Day!

Filed Under: My life Tagged With: appreciation, dad, daddy's girl, daughter, father, father-daughter, father's day, letter, love, parent, thank you

For Your Reading Pleasure // Have American Parents Got It All Backwards?

May 11, 2013 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

Christine Gross-Loh

I firmly agree with this article by Christine Gross-Loh.  As Americans most of us are far too over protective of our children and I think it is doing them a disservice.  Children need to be allowed the freedom to experience the world relatively untethered.  If you’re constantly following your child around making sure they don’t fall down and get hurt, how will they ever learn to be respect the laws of nature?  They’ll keep flinging themselves down stairs and off of furniture  because they have been taught that you will always catch them, they aren’t learning that their actions have consequences.  They aren’t learning to be cautious.  I can remember my dad teaching me to use a kitchen knife when I was 4 or 5 years old.  A few years ago I asked my parents how they could be so relaxed about my brothers and I running around the jungle wielding machetes, especially since they had no idea where we were at any given moment.  My dad replied that they knew we viewed the machetes as tools and not weapons.  We respected the tool and weren’t reckless with it.

I want to channel that little nugget of parenting wisdom.  I really hope I can give my own children a childhood as amazing as the one my parents gave me. This article only confirms my assertion at the importance of having a global vision.

So read this.

Filed Under: For Your Reading Pleasure Tagged With: article, children, freedom, global, parent, parenting, parenting style, parenting tips, perspective

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