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Pregnancy Weight Gain

January 30, 2013 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com 1 Comment

In general the amount of weight that a woman should gain during pregnancy varies significantly depending on her body type, lifestyle and health factors.  Women who are underweight before getting pregnant generally gain more weight than women who are overweight before getting pregnant.  Many women within a normal weight range for their height (Body Mass Index, BMI) are told that they should gain between 25-30 pounds by the end of their pregnancies, with the majority of the weight being gained in the second half of the pregnancy.

My Weight Gain Timeline:

March 13th:  I had a doctor’s appointment 2 days before I conceived and I weighed in at 130 pounds (I’m 5 feet 5.5 inches tall), this was a little heavier than my normal weight of 125 pounds but my body was still getting back to normal after my first pregnancy and subsequent miscarriage.

April 25th:  At my first prenatal appointment I was 8 weeks pregnant and I weighed 139 pounds, which meant I had already gained 9 pounds, which was slightly unusual.

So things get a little hazy from here, until my 25 week appointment, but in general I was gaining smaller amounts of weight each month, 4 pounds here, 2 pounds there.

August 24th: At my 25 week appointment I weighed 153 pounds!! Meaning a total of 23 pounds gained thus far.  At this point I totally freaked out, because I was only just over half way through my pregnancy and most women gain the most weight during the third trimester.

September 14th:  151 pounds…odd that I lost 2 pounds, but I had been making a conscious effort to eat better and exercise more. Total weight gain = 21 pounds.

September 25th: 153 pounds.  Total weight gain 23 pounds

Fast forward a bit, since my weight pretty much stayed between 153-155 pounds and would just fluctuate back and forth at each appointment I had.

November 14th: 37 weeks pregnant and I weigh 154 pounds…so still staying right around where things have been for the past 12 weeks .  Total weight gain = 24 pounds.

It’s pretty atypical for a woman to gain all her weight during pregnancy during the first half and hardly anything in the second half, but this just goes to show that pregnancy weight gain can look very different on different people.  Some women (like me) gain weight in clusters, while some gain weight gradually over time.

November 20th: 38 weeks pregnant and I weigh 155 pounds. Total weight gain = 25 pounds

November 26th: 39 weeks pregnant and I weigh 159 pounds.  Gained 4 pounds this week, which is not surprising after I gorged myself and was completely sedentary during Thanksgiving. Total weight gain = 29 pounds

December 6th: 40 weeks pregnant and I weigh 157 pounds.  Lost 2 pounds from last week, which is odd, since I haven’t been very active and I’ve had more junk food than normal, but my midwife says the baby is a good size. Total weight gain = 27 pounds

December 11th:  Asher Nathan Anvari is born at 11:36pm, weighing in at 7 pounds 11.5 ounces.

December 24th:  2 weeks postpartum, and weighing 139 pounds. I think the large quantities of water I have been drinking curbed my appetite and I haven’t been consuming as many calories as I need to.  Lost 18 pounds, still have 14 more to go.

January 8th: 4 weeks postpartum and weighing 139 pounds.  I have been making an active effort to eat more to help support my milk supply.

January 22nd: 6 weeks postpartum and weighing 137 pounds.  Lost 20 pounds, still have 12 more to go, but I’m in no rush, the most important thing is that I eat enough to maintain my milk supply and that I start to regain some muscle tone so I don’t feel so weak.

So there you have it.  I could fit into some of my pre-pregnancy pants by 9 days postpartum, even if I did need to squeeze into them, however my maternity pants are too loose, so I’m in an awkward in-between stage, luckily I spend 95% of my time in pajamas or sweatpants.

Filed Under: Health, My life Tagged With: BMI, Body Mass Index, Pregnancy, pregnancy weight gain, pregnant, weight

Introducing: Asher Nathan Anvari

December 17, 2012 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com 1 Comment

Born: December 11th, 2012 at 11:36pm.  Birth story to follow, but in the mean time enjoy this video that the Hubs made of us growing together from week 18 until his birth:

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Filed Under: My life Tagged With: baby, birth, mom, mommy, photography, Pregnancy, pregnant, son, stop motion video, time lapse, youtube

On Getting Pregnant

November 16, 2012 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

In March 2011 Rafaan and I decided that we were ready to start a family and much to our surprise I got pregnant after only 1 month of trying.  Sadly that pregnancy ended in a miscarriage in June 2011 and after waiting the two months that were recommended by my care provider we decided to start trying again in August 2011.  Well things did not happen as quickly the second time around, it took us 7 months to get pregnant, which in the grand scheme of things isn’t very long, but after having a miscarriage it felt like an eternity and I began to worry that something was wrong.  So this is our journey with trying to conceive (TTC), what worked for us and some general preconception health information.

First off let me say that ANY and ALL women who are sexually active should be taking a daily prenatal vitamin, even if you are not intending to get pregnant and even if you are actively trying to prevent pregnancy.  The reason for this being that accidents happen.  In fact in the US nearly half of all pregnancies are unintended.  Prenatal vitamins specifically contain folic acid which helps prevent neural tube defects and in the 2 weeks between fertilization and a missed period those neural tubes have already begun to form, so it’s important that folic acid already be in the mother’s system.  Just take a prenatal vitamin in place of a daily women’s multi-vitamin and go about your merry way.

The first thing you should do when you begin thinking about having a baby is to go see your doctor for some pre-conception counseling.  You want to make sure you are in the best health possible when you get pregnant and going to pre-conception counseling can help get you there if you aren’t already.

Back to my story:  In August we started trying again and at first we decided that we wouldn’t actively try but that we would just stop using contraception and see what happens.  Well that plan went out the window really fast after I realized that I was still consciously trying to get pregnant regardless of us wanting to just “go with the flow.”  So that’s when I decided to buy a bunch of ovulation predictor kits (OPks) and started peeing on them every day, well despite getting positive reading from the OPKs and timing our baby making sessions around them, I still wasn’t getting pregnant and I started to feel like I didn’t have a clue about my body, and being that my chosen field was maternal and child health, this kind of made me feel a bit lost.  A friend of mine recommended the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility, which is an AMAZING resource. I seriously can’t say enough about how great this book is.  I believe all women should own a copy of this book because it’s about so much more than just pregnancy.  Seriously, take a look!  Through using this book I learnt how to chart my fertility cycles and to become in tuned with my body so that I could recognize when I was nearing ovulation. It only took 3 months of charting my cycles for me to get pregnant and during the process I felt really empowered and that I finally understood my body again.   For those of you who don’t know what charting your cycles entails, you basically take your waking temperature every morning using a basal body thermometer and you also keep track of your cervical mucus.  It sounds complicated, but it really is SUPER simple and easy.  If anyone wants more details about how exactly to do it or you have been charting and are confused by what you’re seeing please just leave a comment or send me an email and I’d be happy to help.

I also went to see a fertility acupuncturist, who again came highly recommended by a friend AND did fertility acupuncture work at Johns Hopkins.  She put me on 2 herbal supplements; Fertile Garden and Astra Essence  and told me that I needed to take 6 pills of each a day.  Now I can’t say whether or not these pills actually had an effect on me getting pregnant, but I can say that I got pregnant the first full month I was taking them.  The friend who recommended me also got pregnant using these pills not once but twice!  The first time it was after 10 months of TTC and she got pregnant the first month she was on the pills and then again the same thing happened with her third child.  I have since recommended these pills to a cousin of mine and she got pregnant the first month she used them too. Maybe this is all a coincidence, I can’t say for sure, but what I can say is that you should talk to a medical professional before taking any and all supplements.  Don’t self medicate!

Once I got a confirmed pregnancy test reading on April 1st, 2012, I stopped taking the herbal supplements and then tried to be as positive as possible, but actually being pregnant is a whole other story all together, so stay tuned.

Here are some articles for anyone interested in learning more about folic acid as prevention for neural tube defects:

Blencowe, H., Cousens, S., Modell, B., & Lawn, J. (2010). Folic acid to reduce neonatal mortality from neural tube disorders. International Journal of Epidemiology , 110-121.

Laurence, K. M., James, N., Miller, M. H., Tennant, G. B., & Campbell, H. (1981 ). Double-blind randomised controlled trial of folate treatment before conception to prevent recurrence of neural-tube defects. British Medical Journal , 1509-1511.

Werler, M. M., Shapiro, S., & Mitchell, A. A. (1993). Periconceptional Folic Acid Exposure and Risk of Occurrent Neural Tube Defects. JAMA , 1257-1261.  *Sorry I couldn’t find a free link to the full text of this one*

Filed Under: Health, My life Tagged With: acupuncture, astra essence, Conception, fertile, fertile garden, Fertility, folic acid, herbal supplements, neural tube defects, Ovulation Predictor Kits, preconception, Pregnancy, pregnant, prenatal vitamins, taking charge of your fertility, TTC

What this is all about

November 15, 2012 by lauren.anvari@gmail.com Leave a Comment

I am currently 37 weeks pregnant with our first child and have been doing a LOT of reading and researching in these past 8.5 months.  I have mainly been reading mommy blogs, because I’m fascinated  by how other women are navigating this parenting role, and what choices they are making when it comes to their children.  In all my reading I felt like something was missing.  Moms would state their preferences or their view points on important topics but there was rarely any evidence based research to back their claims or opinions up, which may be perfectly fine for some people, but for me and I imagine a lot of other people out there, I wanted more. So I decided to start this blog, which I hope will be 1 part mommy blog  and 1 part informative resource.  My plan is for this blog to cover everything, from my personal journey into parenthood, to product reviews, to health information and beyond.

Filed Under: My life Tagged With: baby, blog, evidence based, maternal health, mommy, pregnant

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